<h1 style="text-align: center;">Play To Your Strength’s, Work On Your Weaknesses</h1>
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<p>You’ve learned game, or you’re learning game (it is an ongoing process – you need to keep up with the ever changing sexual marketplace out there) and you’ve been putting yourself out there. <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/06/29/what-to-do-when-a-girl-ignores-your-approach/">Approaching</a>, <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2025/04/08/is-compatibility-only-about-interests-exploring-deeper-connections/">winning</a>, losing, banging, <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/09/11/five-common-first-kiss-mistakes-and-how-to-avoid-them/">kissing</a>, going home alone with just your frustrations and your hand – what have you – you are out there practicing dating game. And good on you. For those still waiting in the wings, read this blog, and get out there already, every girl is getting used more and more, so you’re wasting your time, and you are relinquishing fresh tighter pussy to more bolder men. For those of you that are out there, and want to increase your success rate, I’m here to help yet again. You hear the common advice play to your strengths, and it is solid advice. Let’s say you are good at initial attraction, and comfort building, but terrible at actual seduction and getting to the actual goal, which is spreading her legs. If you play to your strengths you are bound to get a few girls who allow you bend them in any way you want, but it will more than likely be relying on how horny and slutty the girl is. You will only be successful a handful of times. Increasing your lay to work ratio is something I know every guy wants to get higher. But how? You can’t simply just play to your strengths, it will only go so far, you need to identify what area you aren’t as natural at, you aren’t as proficient at and work on that. I find that game advice can sometimes be a mishmash of alpha behaviour alone landing you sweet poon, and it’s simply not reality. You can chase off a lot of girls by just being alpha, and the over all goal is to bang as many girls as you can, or at least close the ones you really want. And to do this you need to look at your game. The only way to really do this, of course is to be out there dating a lot of girls. You will then begin to see what comes the easiest to you. If you build attraction without batting and eyelash, well you don’t need to work on that dating game, you just need to relax with that aspect and move on to the next one. If you’re great at actual final seduction, but not so much at initial attraction, you need to work on that, and leave the seduction as your natural state that comes out when needed.</p>
<h2>Understanding Your Natural Game Strengths</h2>
<p>It’s my belief that every guy, that isn’t an omega, is a natural to some degree. Some are better openers, can chat up a room, chat up a girl, approach with no anxiety – then there are others who aren’t as adept at that, but once alone with a girl who is attracted, can close them in minutes, and with little effort. I’m gonna be honest with you here, I’m gonna pin it as a Game Reality: GR#1: Once a girl is ready for sex, she will have it in minutes, failure to act quickly will prevent you from having sex. Once the attraction is escalated, go for the close as soon as you sense it. A girl primed, is a girl ready to have cock insertion in any and every hole. Yes the close is probably <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States-dating-service.html?gender=male">most single guys</a> who are running game’s most difficult hurdle. It’s the last vestige of the beta delusion that girls don’t or won’t fuck with in minutes of meeting you. It’s not true. Not every girl will be as fast, but she will once the right buttons are pushed. Every girl. But opening’s and approaching seemed to be the bulk of early game teaching, just getting the wussiness out of this mangina culture was a big hurdle – getting men to approach the girls he desires and <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/04/27/i-completely-suck-at-handling-romantic-rejection/">risk humiliating rejection</a>, is a difficult obstacle for guys who aren’t naturally social. Then of course there’s learning to comfort build once you’ve learned to talk to girls. We’ve all seen the guy, usually a stocky or portly guy, friends of the jocks or alpha’s, who talks and charms people with his wit, and his good social skills, but as soon as he’s left alone with a girl, he loses it. It’s the guy who needs a big audience. This kind of guy needs to work on comfort building, escalation and final seduction.</p>
<h2>Tailoring Your Game to Your Individual Strengths</h2>
<p>A noob to game may, may, be bad at all three of these, just due to sheer lack of experience. But, if they get out there and start trying, they will find that one aspect of their game actually stands out and is more natural. Once you find this natural quality in you, you can start to focus on this as your strength, use it to your advantage, play to this strength, it will get you some success, and in the process, by failing through the other categories, you will find your weaknesses. From there, you can relax and know that your strengths will be the dominant trait that comes out during seduction, that you don’t really need to think about it. Once you get comfortable with it, then you can start to try out different strategies to find the natural path of the other traits. No two men are the same, when advice is given on how to build comfort, or build attraction, or seduce, we can only give you certain general rules and guidelines that are proven effective. What you need to do is find out what your dating game is lacking, and start implementing it into your routines, but in your own style. How a girl perceives you has as much to do with how you exude confidence as it does on how you look. Do you look like a teddy bear? Then you need more edge in your game. Do you look a little creepy? Then you need more sincerity and comfort in your dating game. It’s all how you tailor it to your strengths. Once you master this, you can begin to instantly access what you need to bring out in your <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States-dating-service.html?gender=female">dating game with different girls</a>. You will read them quickly, and you will be able to adjust with little lag time. Thus increasing your lay rate.</p>
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